First I would like to request your attention towards some facts. 1. Here we have as many men living without sisters as we have women living without brothers. 2. Here we have as many orphans as we have couples having no children. 3. Here we have as many children who lost their parents as we have parents who lost their children in their earlier stages. 4. Here we have as many fathers and mothers in old age homes as we have grown up children living in agony due to their parent’s death. The proportions may perhaps change. But the situation still exists here. If this is the situation, analyze this also. • Very few dare to love a woman outside his family as sister and vice versa. • Very few dare to adopt children. • Very few dare to show love and care towards other’s children. • Very few dare to adopt parents. Why this is restricted only to a very few people? I have asked many people about this situation. Many people replied that only through blood relation one can have an emotional attachment towards their loving ones without feeling lust. But if anybody who analyzes this will find that the emotional attachment based on blood relation varies from one person to other. And this variation occurs due to the variation in their thinking. So the intensity of their thinking decides the depth of their relation. The more one thinks about the love and care towards his/her loved ones, the more they feel emotionally attached. So we can see it is not just the influence of blood that makes a relation stronger but the way one thinks and feels about a relation makes it more intense and emotional. A man feels love and warmth towards his sister because of his thinking he had started right from the childhood that she is his sister and he should show love and care towards her. And so is the case of other blood relations also. One’s thoughts when repeated continuously will have greater impact on their reality. And don’t misunderstand me. I am no way trying to diminish the dignity of blood relations. But my attempt here is to bring your notice towards the fact that one can spread his/her love and affection towards others outside their families by changing the way they think. Feelings like Love, Compassion, empathy etc are not just the products of blood relation. It’s something more.



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IN THE NAME OF BLOOD

First I would like to request your attention towards some facts.

1. Here we have as many men living without sisters as we have women living without brothers.
2. Here we have as many orphans as we have couples having no children.
3. Here we have as many children who lost their parents as we have parents who lost their children in their earlier stages.
4. Here we have as many fathers and mothers in old age homes as we have grown up children living in agony due to their parent’s death.

The proportions may perhaps change. But the situation still exists here.
If this is the situation, analyze this also.

• Very few dare to love a woman outside his family as sister and vice versa.
• Very few dare to adopt children.
• Very few dare to show love and care towards other’s children.
• Very few dare to adopt parents.

Why this is restricted only to a very few people? I have asked many people about this situation. Many people replied that only through blood relation one can have an emotional attachment towards their loving ones without feeling lust. But if anybody who analyzes this will find that the emotional attachment based on blood relation varies from one person to other. And this variation occurs due to the variation in their thinking. So the intensity of their thinking decides the depth of their relation. The more one thinks about the love and care towards his/her loved ones, the more they feel emotionally attached.

So we can see it is not just the influence of blood that makes a relation stronger but the way one thinks and feels about a relation makes it more intense and emotional.

A man feels love and warmth towards his sister because of his thinking he had started right from the childhood that she is his sister and he should show love and care towards her. And so is the case of other blood relations also. One’s thoughts when repeated continuously will have greater impact on their reality.

And don’t misunderstand me. I am no way trying to diminish the dignity of blood relations. But my attempt here is to bring your notice towards the fact that one can spread his/her love and affection towards others outside their families by changing the way they think.

Feelings like Love, Compassion, empathy etc are not just the products of blood relation. It’s something more.

 
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  • blueplanetblueplanet

    Posted on : Fri., 21-Oct-2011

    Very interesting words Jophin! It's a very delicate topic though!

  • jophinjohn3jophinjohn3

    Posted on : Sat., 22-Oct-2011

    Thanks Michaela

  • jophinjohn3jophinjohn3

    Posted on : Sat., 22-Oct-2011

    I have witnessed many such situations and it prompted me to write this

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