In every successful relation, there exists an amazing chemistry. I start feeling this when she, my beloved friend reminded me about this. Due to this chemistry we are comfortable with some and not with some others. This chemistry of love can be understood only through love. When we meet some persons, we naturally feel an ease. Whatever we do in their presence, it will come from us very effortlessly. If you are a person with good public exposure, you won’t recognize this easily. But you will feel in your life later what I am saying. Some persons influence you remarkably. This may be due to some inconceivable mystic bonds connecting them with you. So you may get attracted to some even though they look unworthy before others and vice versa. And such bonds are even stronger than blood too. If it’s with your classmate or teacher, you will improve your studies. If it’s with your colleague or employer, you will become more productive. If it’s with your friend, you will become more enthusiastic. And if it’s with your life partner, your life’s destiny will change. You will realize it when you miss such persons. So when you get separated from your classmate or teacher or friend or colleague or lover or any other whom you felt stable and well, you will feel a little bit difficult to maintain your pace. You will feel such agony that your whole life seems to be in trouble, if you were attached to them so intensely. If you find it impossible to get back them into your life, you will start finding them in others. And you know, it’s a tough job to find one in other. You will succeed when you find some other with whom you can move on successfully. But if you can’t find anybody, you will become so dull, hopeless and pessimistic. It’s really traumatic, if you reach such states of despair. So you may think, due to this chemistry some will fall down very drastically too. The quest towards this chemistry of life may lead us to the mysteries of universe. But mysteries in universe make no harm to humanity. In fact it adds beauty and meaning to life. If you start to control it, it will leave you perplexed and confused. Universe will embarrass and surprise you depending on the way you approach it. Understanding the metaphysics and cosmic laws are good to our emotional well being too. So, Is this the chemistry really making the situation worse? I don’t think so. Perhaps it’s the chemistry that makes us feel that we are not a combination of bones and fleshes. Then why human beings lose themselves in despair? See, if we feel unhappy with the separation of anybody, one thing is sure that they are our beloved ones. Otherwise we never feel their missing. So we feel the chemistry of love more, when we miss them. We have no control over anything in universe. We hardly know what will happen next. So all we have is this beautiful present moment. We can make our loving ones feel happy and love when they are nearby. Tomorrow we are not sure. We all have the habit of sacrificing small but significant moments in life for huge but worthless achievements. Spend some time with your beloved ones. Even your ‘hai’ and ‘thanks’ can have much significance. You can either show them your love or make them feel your love. Your show has less value comparing with your feel. The way to others heart is not from your brain but it’s from your heart. Avoid phony words, diplomatic courtesies, formalities when you’re with your loving ones. Just fill inside yourself with love, then whatever that makes you lovable will come from you with greater ease. You don't need to do anything. The feel of love is so potent that it takes you to the unknown but immensely rich planes of everlasting joy and serenity. So if you drop all types of ego and have the willingness to move with love, everything will dissolve. Then you will find more and more persons with whom you can regain your vitality.

In every successful relation, there exists an amazing chemistry. I start feeling this when she, my beloved friend reminded me about this. Due to this chemistry we are comfortable with some and not with some others. This chemistry of love can be understood only through love.

When we meet some persons, we naturally feel an ease. Whatever we do in their presence, it will come from us very effortlessly. If you are a person with good public exposure, you won’t recognize this easily. But you will feel in your life later what I am saying. Some persons influence you remarkably. This may be due to some inconceivable mystic bonds connecting them with you. So you may get attracted to some even though they look unworthy before others and vice versa. And such bonds are even stronger than blood too. If it’s with your classmate or teacher, you will improve your studies. If it’s with your colleague or employer, you will become more productive. If it’s with your friend, you will become more enthusiastic. And if it’s with your life partner, your life’s destiny will change. You will realize it when you miss such persons. So when you get separated from your classmate or teacher or friend or colleague or lover or any other whom you felt stable and well, you will feel a little bit difficult to maintain your pace. You will feel such agony that your whole life seems to be in trouble, if you were attached to them so intensely. If you find it impossible to get back them into your life, you will start finding them in others. And you know, it’s a tough job to find one in other. You will succeed when you find some other with whom you can move on successfully. But if you can’t find anybody, you will become so dull, hopeless and pessimistic. It’s really traumatic, if you reach such states of despair. So you may think, due to this chemistry some will fall down very drastically too.

The quest towards this chemistry of life may lead us to the mysteries of universe. But mysteries in universe make no harm to humanity. In fact it adds beauty and meaning to life. If you start to control it, it will leave you perplexed and confused. Universe will embarrass and surprise you depending on the way you approach it. Understanding the metaphysics and cosmic laws are good to our emotional well being too.

So, Is this the chemistry really making the situation worse? I don’t think so. Perhaps it’s the chemistry that makes us feel that we are not a combination of bones and fleshes. Then why human beings lose themselves in despair? See, if we feel unhappy with the separation of anybody, one thing is sure that they are our beloved ones. Otherwise we never feel their missing. So we feel the chemistry of love more, when we miss them. We have no control over anything in universe. We hardly know what will happen next. So all we have is this beautiful present moment. We can make our loving ones feel happy and love when they are nearby. Tomorrow we are not sure. We all have the habit of sacrificing small but significant moments in life for huge but worthless achievements.

Spend some time with your beloved ones. Even your ‘hai’ and ‘thanks’ can have much significance. You can either show them your love or make them feel your love. Your show has less value comparing with your feel. The way to others heart is not from your brain but it’s from your heart. Avoid phony words, diplomatic courtesies, formalities when you’re with your loving ones. Just fill inside yourself with love, then whatever that makes you lovable will come from you with greater ease. You don't need to do anything. The feel of love is so potent that it takes you to the unknown but immensely rich planes of everlasting joy and serenity.

So if you drop all types of ego and have the willingness to move with love, everything will dissolve. Then you will find more and more persons with whom you can regain your vitality.